Dating After Divorce + Getting Comfortable Being Alone

getting comfortable being alone, not settling, my thoughts on Hinge and more:

This is one of my most asked topics and probably one of the most personal as well.

A little back story to get us up to present day. I have been divorced now 7 years which is kind of crazy. We met in collage started dating at 21 and dated for 6 years before marriage and were married just shy of 10 years. We had two kids Sterling 14 and Frances Moon 11. Sterling was around 7 when we separated and Frances was just turning 3. We did therapy for a long time before deciding to ultimately split-up. My ex immediately remarried and had a baby who is now 4.